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Wednesday, April 11th, 2007
8:59 pm - Gor and Slave Bracelets

I've always been interested in Gor, hearing about it at conventions, seeing the costumes and the activities. I'm sad this sweet little community is so quiet, even though there are still members, so in the hopes of stirring things up a bit (and reminding people that it's still around), I decided to post the slave bracelets I just created. Wikipedia describes slave bracelets as: A bracelet worn by a slave (this meaning comes from BDSM fiction, e.g. John Norman's Gor series of novels).

Smokey blue and silver Slave Bracelet and Cherry Red Slave Bracelet.

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Thursday, August 11th, 2005
1:19 pm - MegaBtch....

Sorry all... I'm back after a couple of years...Wow it's been forever... Things are scarilly almost the same still single, I suppose I set my standards way too high but..A girls got to have her standards right?

SO...I have many answers to many questions always on the lookout to help someone anyone... Hopefully this new post finds everyone in good spirits and health!

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Tuesday, June 8th, 2004
3:50 pm

Is there a justifiable reason why a Christian would wear a necklace with the Star of David on it?

current mood: curious

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Wednesday, September 10th, 2003
6:55 am - Nina Hartley's column

Nina Hartley's column in On Our Backs talked about vanilla partners and the kink intrigued. Read more...Collapse )

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Tuesday, December 10th, 2002
7:10 am - our histories

Most kinky people have always been a bit kinky, and then someone let them / made them come out to these new activities and feelings.

Mine was a tender young thing who wanted to be spanked before sex. A fantasy of mine, I was pleased to do it. Naked bottom on my lap. My hand all over it, What's to decide!

Then after it had become part of our sex life, one day she said, "You're doing it wrong."
I asked her to explain and she insisted she couldn't explain, only show me, so she stood, naked and had me undress. She sat at the top of the bed with the headboard at her back, and had me lie over her lap.
As soon as I was in place, she clamped her thighs tight on my erection. Every movement was like being jerked off. She swatted my bottom, talking to me about how I'd disapointed her by not spanking her right. Then she stroked my balls in between swats.
More swats, still light; more discussion to which I had to respond; that careless placement of her hand when she wasn't spanking me.
Then asking me how many? No idea, so she made me count, starting over because I'd screwed up the count.
Tight naked thighs on my cock.
Then she got to a high number... and asked me if I wanted her to stop.
Panting, I said, "No..."

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Thursday, August 8th, 2002
9:38 am - Uhm...........HELLO?!

Wasn't this supposed to be a support forum and I don't see jack posted here save my last entry.... WOW.......And even no response to THAT...Some support....(yeah that was sarcastic) Ok so uh see ya in the funny papers..........

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Thursday, August 1st, 2002
10:31 am - I joined

and I wasn't welcomed but it's ok I do mostly reading to get ideas and such for support but hi I am in the shadows just kind of lurking

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Tuesday, July 2nd, 2002
9:10 pm

I've had a friend for over 4 years who is submissive. When we've talked about scenes, she has trouble submitting. She will talk about really wanting to submit, getting excited about it, but then wanting either no control or to top from below. Recently she's had a difficult time at work and has been very depressed. We'd talked different scenes and she sent me this note the next day.

In exploring what we discussed the other day in my mind, I realized a couple of things that should have been obvious.

One is that i prefer to be only one of the participants and no the main attractinn in a scene. It makes me very uncomfortable to have the spotlight on me.

I like to laugh and joke in real life true and when I am at a meeting or somewhere where feel at home and confident I do love to particiapte. But i think what really turns me on the most in terms of our hobby is the being treated only like an object with no feelings or rights just one of the group. i think thats why i enjoyed the 3 some with Tina so much aside from the fact i liked her, she was really the main dish and i was a supplement. she dommed me and he dommed her.

i am far too self concsious to be the main dish. if you wanted to torture me and have me feel really bad, then making me the center stage would do that at this point.
especially since i am inherently so BAD at being a good subby lol.

just my thoughts
It's an explanation on how things have gone poorly when it's been one on one with some frequency. It also makes setting up a scene with her more difficult if clearer.
And, yes, I did get her permission to quote her.

current mood: intrigued

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Monday, July 1st, 2002
12:00 am - Just something to get some others thoughts

~ponders~ I am wondering why people who arent members of this community watch this community shrugs..

so a question for you all since this lj does not get much traffic please all endeavour to answer it, of course I understand that it may be impossible for some but then I may think of a few questions..

Scenes.. how do you respond to a really intense scene with your Dominant, submissive or slave...I am on this how do people deal with thing lately so please enlighten me I promise I will answer my own question.

Strength in Dominants.. my Master has an amazing subtle strength Im just wondering if others have noticed this within there own Dominants.

For you what has been the limit youve had or have most trouble leaving behind.. Is there anything that your Dominant cant get past.. I have one or two to do with past expierences.

how to do you get back on track when things go awry in your D/s world how do you center yourself back within for lack of a better word role..

ok Im done Ill look forward to your responses..

current mood: contemplative

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Saturday, June 29th, 2002
3:43 pm


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